My Favourite Loungewear Set & A Blogging Update!

Hello, gorgeous humans, I hope you’re all keeping well! I just wanted to duck in with a little life/blog update . . . and, seeing as you’d probably be bored if I just yammered about my life for ten minutes, I decided to share a cute outfit too!


(Actually, this is no mere cute outfit. This is my favourite outfit. It’s comfy, it’s casual and it still manages to look good? How could I not adore it?)

So I’ve been a little bit absent from the blog this month. In my last post, I mentioned that I’ve been putting in the groundwork for a business I’m starting in the new year. Well, my Etsy business kind of bloomed over the past few weeks and, as people keep ordering 3 candles at a time, I’ve been quite busy fulfilling orders!

(Which is awesome. Thank you, almighty Etsy gods, I massively appreciate your blessing.)

However, as is often the way, the scale may have tipped in Etsy’s favour . . . but only because it lifted off my website’s. Now, I’m pretty transparent about how I monetise this site. My last income report was when I was first starting to figure out Ads and they were already one of my lead breadwinners.

Key word here – were. I tried to integrate a different ad platform (Infolinks) to my site and it completely fucked everything up. The Infolinks code messed with the Adsense code, so no ads were displaying.

In the end, I had to roll back my site (losing a bunch of content/upgrades/comments/hours of site speed improvement work) to before I ever installed the Infolinks plugin because just uninstalling it isn’t enough.

Not to mention the fact that, because I had been doing all these changes, I had to manually reinstall/uninstall each plugin to see where the error was. Only to realise it was Infolinks, have the plugin uninstall not remove all the code/data like it’s meant to and have to roll back my site again. 

It took me literally 2 weeks to get my ads back up and running. But we got there! Fine, phew, I’m just happy they’re up and running. At this point, my blog was pulling in great views, my ad earnings were higher than they’ve ever been . . .

And then I got hit with an adserve limit (that limit being 0) because of invalid traffic concerns. From what I can gather, where I had no ads running at all for a few weeks then a sudden influx of ad views, it triggered something in Google’s algorithm.

Do I understand this? Yes.

Does it make the fact I’m missing out on $400-500 right after paying for my visa less upsetting? No.

Plus, considering you can’t contact Adsense directly, I have to just . . . wait. Apparently it’s usually resolved in less than 30 days but it can (and, according to the internet, often does) take longer. So that’s fun.

All of this is to say that your girl is feeling a bit demotivated. I’m trying to not be entitled or bratty about it; Google don’t owe me ads.

To be honest, it’s just been hard to motivate myself to spend hours working on my site on top of my job and two side hustles when I know the work quite literally isn’t going to pay off at the moment. So yeah. That’s pretty much it for this update and what’s been going on in the background over here!

I’m taking the approach of this is my planning time not posting time. Hopefully by the new year, my ads will be up and running – and I’ve already got most of January’s content written up! I’m still going to be kicking around in the blogosphere until then, but rather than focusing my efforts on pushing out content now, I’m just going to focus on planning and preparation.

As of writing this post, my ads seem to be slowly getting back up! (In fact, I earned a whole $6 yesterday! I know that sounds sarcastic, but I’m genuinely so happy because I’ve been earning $0 for the past few weeks. Thank you, Google!)

I hope this post didn’t sound too whiny or anything – I just wanted to get a little explanation up for why I haven’t been posting as much this month. Silver linings, though: I’ve got so much fun stuff coming up for you all in January! Have you guys ever struggled with feeling super demotivated with blogging? How do you get out the funk? Let me know your thoughts down below!


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22 thoughts on “My Favourite Loungewear Set & A Blogging Update!”

    1. crystalsandcurls – I'm going through a bit of an existential crisis right now, I'll tell you about myself when I figure out if I'm real or not.

      Thanks lovely! It’s definitely been frustrating but I’m trying to not get too stressed LOL! xx

  1. mozesjanka – I'm Janka Mozes an adventure seeker who can't get enough of getting away to explore new spots, cultures and some radiant people. 'Barefoot around the world' is a blog aimed at sharing my personal travel experiences and stories as candidly as possible. 'Shades of Fashion' is a platform coined for another grand passion of mine: it is a haven where I can share my love for style and clothes - it is a website to plunge into and catch a glance at fashion, from a bird's eye view.

    Love this look! Maybe you’d like to catch a glance at my website, too. It’s all about fashion – at a Bird’s Eye View:

  2. 50shad3s0fjay – Hello everyone my name is JENNIE! Follow me on my journey of happiness and love ❤️❤️

    Babe it just takes time! Your motivation will come back! This outfit is too cute! Sending lots of love

    1. crystalsandcurls – I'm going through a bit of an existential crisis right now, I'll tell you about myself when I figure out if I'm real or not.

      Thank you so much Jay! I hope you’re having a fab run up to christmas gorgeous lady! <3

  3. Keri Elaine – Hi! My name is Keri and I am a working actress. Welcome to my corner of the internet, where I talk a ton about mindset, share some travel highlights, the arts, life experiences with a splash of fashion. If you appreciate the arts, fashion, mindset, comedic skits, and open conversation, then this is the site for you!

    That set is fabulous on you! God the adsense and such set up is always so damn confusing. I honestly had a similar issue with my Amazon account. You live and learn a slightly expense less rawr.

    1. crystalsandcurls – I'm going through a bit of an existential crisis right now, I'll tell you about myself when I figure out if I'm real or not.

      Thank you, Keri! You do indeed live and learn…. oh yikes what happened with amazon? I’ve had a few issues where the supplier changes a product price then amazon contact me to say i have to update the information because it’s incorrect before :/ running a website is WORK! x

  4. infinitelyadaydreamer – Sydney – hey there, I'm Maryam! A minimalist, intersectional feminist, lifestyle + wellness blogger and creatively driven teen from sunny Sydney. I'm an aspiring interior designer and self proclaimed iced coffee fanatic. Welcome to infinitelyadaydreamer, a home for all my internal musings. I hope you'll stay a while x

    The most fabulous set! I’m sorry to hear about your site struggles. That’s very unpleasant! I couldn’t imagine earning six dollars in a day from ads.. I took mine down because I was only earning fifteen to twenty cents a month..

  5. Love your white outfit so much! You are amazing!
    Thanks for sharing

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  6. Hannah – Hello there! My name is Hannah and I am a 22 year old lifestyle blogger who loves travelling, coffee and social media. Welcome to my corner of the Internet.

    What a gorgeous outfit! It looks so comfy!
    If you aren’t making any money off of your posts at the moment because your ad-sense isn’t working properly, you might as well wait to post. Everyone can say how much they love blogging but if you are going to end up posting the post anyway, you might as well post it when you can get paid for actually doing the work. Gotta afford Christmas somehow! xx

  7. YesMissy – Toronto, Canada – Eileen is the Canadian lifestyle blogger behind She's a creative mind, lover of fashion, and wanderlust at heart. Here you'll find her thoughts on style, beauty, travel, decor and more. Beyond just a the blog, YesMissy encompasses the philosophy that life is about creating moments and not waiting for them.

    First off this outfit is so cute!! I can feel your pain when it comes to website updates, it’s such painstaking work to fix things up sometimes. But glad to hear that Adsense is back up for you!

    Eileen |

  8. K.M. Sutton – I am a country girl living on the Upper East Side of the concrete jungle. My friends call me a modern day Renaissance woman. I have dabbled in a little bit of everything, from being a yoga instructor to holistic chef, to skating coach, to glorified nanny, to student. I am a self admitted coffee junkie. A wannabe mermaid. A wanderluster who dreams of other countries. A fashionista who really does need a bigger bank account. But most important of all, I dream of living in a bungalow by the ocean and being a published writer (in style of course) sipping coffee in the morning and a martini in the evening. I love to meet my readers, so feel free to comment or email me. Happy reading!

    First of all your outfit is stunning! You look amazing! Second I am so sorry love that is SO frustrating! I am happy it is getting fixed. Also congrats on your Etsy shop! I am so flipping happy for you! Sending you so much love! <3

  9. Huge congrats on your Etsy shop lovely, I am sorry to hear your having site struggles, IT issues is the absolute worst!! You are doing absolutely amazing and the motivation will come back, I have gone through so many writer block funks this year and writing a mind map of lots of blog post ideas helps me a lot xxx

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